Hi -diddle- dee- dee. An Auto – Life for Me? No, not for ages.

Hi -diddle- dee- dee.  An  Auto - Life for Me?  No, not for ages. Wanna' know how?

(With thanks to Walt Disney).


Stop being a puppet, 0r a muppet.


Tryin’ to get the right 'self-change ‘ knowledge is, contaminated with all kinds of expert- poo. Most of it isn’t easy to understand. If you don’t understand it you can’t apply it. Truth is success is about taking little steps forward. But ya' gotta' know the steps. See below.

I, me, myself, only write, useful, sensible, understandable, do-able, proven, people-empowering, informative, personally researched, information.

I hope you find this post informative and useful. Hope? Nah, forget hope. I know that what I write in my blog will provide you with exactly what you need to know and understand to get to ‘a better place’ in your life. Wherever that is for you.

I honestly wish you great success.


In my past.
In the early days of researching and writing for this blog I looked at what others were writing/doing. I thought it was best to follow their example. Over time I realized that this was not right for me. So, I now write my stuff in my way.

Some may not like it. I don’t, can’t and won’t try to please everybody. That’s impossible because I know that: I can please some of the people some of the time and all of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time............. as the saying goes.
What I want is, to help and empower those people who appreciate what I write and the way that I write it.

See below.

Learning about learning.
Learning has no value if you don’t ‘get to know’ stuff that you can actually use. So I always write stuff that I use myself. I believe that what I write will see you right. It will arm you with facts and knowledge that increase your ability to take control of your life. 

My mission is to get keep it , comprehensive, simple, remove complexity. No information gaps that hold people back. I am convinced that most self- help writers leave out the really useful stuff or confuse us with expert-speak.
I only have one objective: to help my readers find their ‘aha’ moment. Well there's usually more than one. The moment(s) that empowers them to overcome obstacles and achieve better things, in any area of life.


Who do you think you are?
What do you think of or tell yourself about YOU?. “I’m an idiot.” “I messed up”. “I’ll never get the hang of x, or y or z”. Look, I made huge mistakes in my life and career. My life and learning experiences have taught me that there are just two ways that people live, run, think of and operate their life.


Here they are:
A. On auto-pilot, using emotions and beliefs that were formed early in life. You know, when you had no firm foundation on which to base your way of operating. A time when you knew squat about what could help you make proper sense of life.

(Been there, done it got the tee shirt. Now here, don’t do it anymore, tee shirt dumped).

B. As a real-pilot with, proper training, logic and insight. Until we are mature enough to know the difference between A and B most of us think that we are masters of our own destiny. With this big ‘thinking-mistake ‘ we fool ourselves about the control we actually have.



What are you in control of?
The biggest battle most of us face in life is the one we have with ourselves. The battle to, ‘think and do -things- that- would- be- of- help- but- are-too- much- trouble’ versus, to stop thinking and doing  things that are bad for us. .

Can’t resist that bar(s) of chocolate, the glass(es) of wine or the nicotine fix of a cigarette? Are you really in control of who you make friends with? Are you in control of your fears? Do you get angry when someone pushes your buttons?
There is, one, two step, process, formula, approach, system,  that you can learn and use that will overcome all those auto-pil0t reactions.

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 See directly below.

It’s, THINK -DO -HAVE. Get to, know it, understand it and use it and you take control of yourself and your life.


Here’s the 'aha' bit.
Everything you do, starts with a thought.

Everything you do, starts with a thought.

Everything you do, starts with a thought.

Everything you do, starts with a thought.

Everything you do, starts with a thought.

Everything you do, starts with a  thought.

Everything you do, starts with a thought.


Without fail it's a thought, that prompts EVERY action you carry out. It’s THINK- DO. When you do the DO BIT  you will create/HAVE an effect in your life.
Many of those thoughts and actions are, stupid, make no sense and mess up our, wealth, health and relationships. But we still think and do them..... on auto-pilot. The three life areas mentioned in the sentence above are the ones where people, all over the world, experience the most problems.

Most of us blindly go through life on auto-pilot. We satisfy our needs through, emotional, minimal- thinking, automatic, habitual, uncontrolled, emotionally sabotaged, responses/actions. 

This is why all advertising/ers use our illogical but powerful    emotions to make us want what's on offer. Do you really need another, Mars bar, TV with a bigger screen, new bed, whatever,  or are you just being emotionally blackmailed into wanting it.

You can learn a 'better wisdom' and take control of these moments.

It's, a two step, formula/process/system. Step 1. THINK (better). Step 2. DO (better). Then you will automatically HAVE (better).


You can learn and use this 'better wisdom'.
Access to this ‘better wisdom’ is, SELF -EMPOWERING. It’s provided by the great authors, thought-leaders, educators and truth- seekers of this world. Mostly through their books. Knowing this information empowers us to override, ‘mental autopilot’. You can learn how-to, eradicate auto-pilot, thinking and doing, take back control, gain personal power, take evasive action and so avoid future hassle.

I absolutely believe that life should be a constant search for better knowledge/information/tactics/rules. A search to, discover  a solution that empowers  us to: avoid problems, live a happier and enjoy a more productive life. Your search is over, 'cause  I just explained it to you above. It's,  this two - step formula: 

(Step 1). T + (Step 2). D  =  H

Here are some of the information sources, that helped me learn this  'better wisdom' and transform my life. Studying them could do the same for you:
"The Science of Getting Rich". Wallace D. Wattles
"As a Man Thinketh". James Allen
"Wake up and Change your Life". Duncan Bannatyne.
"The Power of Now". Eckhart Tolle.
"Practicing the Power of Now". Eckhart Tolle
"Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff". Richard Carlson Ph.D.
"The Power of Thinking Big". David Schwartz. Ph.D.
"Thinking for a Change". John C. Maxwell.
"What you see is what you get". Sir Allan Sugar.
"The Master Key System". Charles F. Haanel.
"The Rules of Wealth". Richard Templar.
"Think and Grow Rich". Napoleon Hill
*Plus many others.
You could  read these book too.  But, it will take you several months to get through them all. Then a few more to, identify and make notes of the central message that they all have buried within them. The message isn’t hidden, there’s no secret, it just takes a lot of time and effort to unearth it.
But: Reading my posts will, hugely shorten the time, reduce, the spadework, mental effort, and discipline needed to get you off, 'auto-pilot' living. Go read 'em.

Here to help,


Thought Master and Mentor

P. S. Empowering people to help themselves is my passion. Learning is pointless unless you, use what you learn, evolve, grow by, and benefit from it. I am always looking for better ways to, do things, find new solutions to problems and share what I learn with others.

About philinspain

A self - help addict for the last forty years. I have spent the last five years seeking for, and finding, the essential, central and most effective tools that empower personal change. My mission is to, inform serve, help and teach others what I know. Why? Because, you can't use what you don't know. So let me tell you what you need to know through this blog. Albert Einstein knows the truth, but............. it ain't Rocket Science.
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