"Our life always expresses the results of (acting on) our dominant thoughts". Soren Kierkegaard. (I added the words 'acting on', you'll understand why by the time you finish reading this post).

Hello and welcome,

The happiest, wealthiest and  most successful people in the world are the most motivated, dedicated and inspired!!!! Yes????????

Not exactly, T. R. U. E.         (Totally Reliable Understandable Evidence)

It isn’t motivation, inspiration or even perspiration that create success, but habit and action. Habit of thought, that is!!!! Followed by action! Every action you do is preceded by a thought. If you think a good, helpful, self-empowering thought and act on it then something  good, helpful or self-empowering will happen in your life.

A thought plus action makes things happen.  Here’s a simple example, you think, “I’ll kick the dog” (the thought). You kick the dog, (the action). The dog bites you. Your  thought and your actions caused the dog to bite you. Don’t blame the dog!!!

If you habitually think and do, stupid, wrong unhelpful things every day then your life will be much less than it could be.

The most successful people in the world definitely have, motivation, inspiration and passion for what they do, but thoughts of motivation, inspiration and passion that aren’t accompanied by action have no effect.

Your ‘thought habits’ and your actions, above anything else, are what will lead to your eventual success or non-success..

Creating bad effects in your life can be totally avoided by not acting on any bad, stupid,  thoughts. Not acting on good, beneficial, helpful, thoughts will also deny you a better life.

You and only you have, the power, the choice whether to act on any thought or not.

The message you should now have picked up is this. As long as you act only on good, helpful, sensible, beneficial thoughts then, in general, you will have a much better life  as long as  you accept right now that your thoughts are the foundation of all success or failure.

It ain’t rocket science!!!

Taking the IF out of LIFE, well some of it.

Life throws us all stuff that we don’t want. That’s enough to be handling. But if we add our own bad stuff to that, through our lousy thinking and doing, life can become too much to handle.

If your days are dominated by thought habits and the actions that help you forward on your self-empowerment journey, then,  sometime in the future , you will have the  kind life you  deserve.

Eventually you will be exactly where you want to be, doing what you want to be doing, earning what you want to be earning, in a relationship that is good, in business for yourself, or in an above average position working for someone else.  I write eventually because none of it will happen overnight, in day, in week, in a month or even a year. The only certainty is that if you don’t think and do the right things you will never have what you desire most in your life.

Time for a rhyme.

You know how well we all remember song lyrics and nursery rhymes from years past? It’s because the ‘message’, ‘knowledge’, ‘information’   rhymes.

Well, below is a little rhyme I made up that I use every day.  If you learn it ‘off by heart’ it will inspire and self-empower you too.

I consider myself to be thought-leader on 'how to live better'  because I work on improving my own thought-habits and actions every day.

What you think and what you do,

Determine what becomes of you.

I also created a super duper, extended version, that goes like this:

If your life you’d rearrange,

Your thoughts and acts will have to change.

If you don’t change what you think and do,

You’ll always be the same old you!

I’m confident that you will remember this message from now on. It ain’t 'cutting edge' poetry but it works for me!

THINK.    DO.     HAVE.

Go, THINK it, but make sure it's good,  DO it and you will HAVE the life that you choose. Clever Eh? Just do it! ©  (Thank you Nike)

As always, beneficially yours,

Phil Soffé

(Merry Christmas) and Happy New (thinking) Year, in 2014, just in case I don't get to post again before Christmas).

Here to help!

P.S. All of my Posts give you 'results proven' information about how to become Self - Empowered,  through the improved use of your mind, your thoughts and your actions. That's why it's called Self-Empowerment. It's your thinking and your doing that holds the key to taking charge of your life. Why?  How?Because : "What you think and what you do, determine what becomes of you".  It ain't Rocket Science.


About philinspain

A self - help addict for the last forty years. I have spent the last five years seeking for, and finding, the essential, central and most effective tools that empower personal change. My mission is to, inform serve, help and teach others what I know. Why? Because, you can't use what you don't know. So let me tell you what you need to know through this blog. Albert Einstein knows the truth, but............. it ain't Rocket Science.
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