"A man is the product of his thoughts. What he thinks he becomes". Mahatma Gandhi. (I'm certain that he intended this statement to apply to women as well).

What you think and what you do,

       Determine what becomes of you! Me.

Hello and welcome,

Read all of this post, the few minutes you spend will make you a stronger, more capable, better informed person and because it will work wonders for your life!

Many people know of of the Law Of Attraction. You may also have  heard about many books, videos and articles that propose this 'law' as a way to achieve anything in life. The problem is that very few people, myself included, have been able to make this work in reality. I have read almost all that is available about this method of improving  my own life circumstances.   I  tried all the things I was told to do but my life didn't change. I searched and found examples of many online people who sincerely want to help others but many of them came to the conclusion that the LOA is  not a sensible, viable and workable method of becoming a better person. Once you have read this post, Google, 'Why Law Of Attraction', you will get around 8,520,000 results explaining why T L O A doesn't work! 

Want to get nowhere fast?

Remember the book and film, 'The Secret"?  I bought it. I read it. I bought the video. I watched it. I tried to do all that was suggested but just became very frustrated and almost gave up trying to find a way to take control of and 'be in charge of' my life. I came to the conclusion that depending on outside forces to help me, or anyone else,  was a non- starter. I realised that, "If it's to be it's up to me"! 

My search and final conclusion.

Over many years I read, listened to and watched hundreds of books, audio tapes and videos about how to become 'a person of power' in my own life. The material I researched revealed to me something startling.  The unwavering conviction that, we are each the source of our own success or failure in life. Two books in particular got me thinking (properly) they were, "The Law of Success in Sixteen Lessons" and  "Think and Grow Rich", by Napoleon Hill. I believe that it doesn't take sixteen lessons, it needs just two  and that, thinking without doing will never make you rich. I thank Napoleon for giving me the foundation to my final conclusions.

You and your mind! Me and mine!

The power to create in your life comes directly from your mind in the form of your thoughts. Your thoughts, no one else's. Follow them up with action and you have the perfect recipe for lifelong 'personal evolution'. Your reality, your life experiences, begin in how you operate mentally. What happens in your mind and you actions directly effect your physical reality.

Everyone can 'think' and everyone can 'do'.

It is the quality and content of your thoughts and actions that dictate what takes place in your life. If you are aware of your thoughts you should know whether what you are thinking is likely to benefit you or bring you down. Whichever kind of thought you act on will become real in your life!

The 'Law Of Mental Creation'.

All creation begins in your mind in the form of a thought! If you think a particular thought and  you act on it you will create some kind of effect in your life. The thought can be anything from "I'll kick the dog" to "I'll buy my wife some flowers". Or even "I'll start a business. "I'll start writing my book"Acting on any of these thoughts will create an effect in your life. An angry dog. A happy wife! A new business in progress. A best selling book in progress.This process holds true for any thought you have and the action you decide to follow it up with.  The 'Law of Mental Creation' is, common sense/sensible, observable and do-able for anyone! Remember though. No action, no traction!

What others did, you can do too! 

If you took the time and effort to investigate this truth you would soon realise that all the great writers, business people, entertainers, political visionaries, Olympic athletes, used this process to their advantage. They didn't use the LOA because most of them didn't kow about it, they  learned to use what they had inside themselves ( their thoughts) and their actions to achieve what they did. Henry Ford used thoughts and actions to create his world and what he gave to the world. I don't think that the LOA had been 'discovered' at that time.

Let others know!

If you think that any of your friends would be interested in the information in my blogs please let them know. I will appreciate your help and they could, in the future, thank you for letting them know about me, my book and my intentions!


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Always working to help others to think better and become more than they currently are!

Changing people one thought at a time. Changing the world one person at a time”. Me.


Did you know? It took Leonardo Da Vinci 10 years to paint the Mona Lisa.

'Manifestation'  is simply, self - empowered creation.

The word manifestation is bandied about all over the industry aimed at 'enabling' people. It  means, among other descriptions,  making, causing something to happen, evidence, proof,  appearance, creating something that wasn't there before. You can do that through your thoughts and actions. It is a simple case of cause and effect. This process puts you in control and gives you the power to make your reality whatever you choose it to be. The word choose is where your responsibility lies. Only you can choose to THINK and DO, or not do, anything.

Yes I have placed a link in all my posts about a book I have written. It’s entitled “MIND MATTERS!”. I wrote it to help everyone who reads it to discover how to, understand, control and use your mind to your best advantage. You will have to invest $5.00 to begin empowering yourself. If you only ever DO one thing to help yourself get the most you can out of life DO THIS! Click on the ‘BUY NOW’ button on the right to get the book. It will change your THINKING and your LIFE. Why not do it now?

Thank you for reading this post!

You could also go to my other website, click on this link, either here or in my posts. This site will allow you to find out more about me, my research and my insight into the world that very few people ever learn about, understand, and then actually know how to use in order to make their life better. The process is called SELF-EMPOWERMENT.

The ‘Zen of Self Empowerment’.

Three words, think, do, have!

I hope that you now think that you have 'learned something of value to you'. Thanks for reading!

Beneficially yours, always,

Phil Soffé

P.S. A reminder that my book 'MIND MATTERS' will start you on the self-empowering journey of understanding how, what we think and do determines the life we all experience.


About philinspain

A self - help addict for the last forty years. I have spent the last five years seeking for, and finding, the essential, central and most effective tools that empower personal change. My mission is to, inform serve, help and teach others what I know. Why? Because, you can't use what you don't know. So let me tell you what you need to know through this blog. Albert Einstein knows the truth, but............. it ain't Rocket Science.
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    Admin at, and webmaster at

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