"A man is the product of his thoughts. What he thinks he becomes". Mahatma Gandhi. (I'm sure that he also intended this statement to apply to women).

What you think and what you do,

      Determine what becomes of you! Me

 Hello and welcome,

Read all of this post, the few minutes you spend will make you a stronger, more capable, better informed person and because it will work wonders for your life!

For some time I wondered whether I was sufficiently well qualified to offer a new and more modern 'product' to the self-help arena. There are hundreds of websites offering 'the keys' to getting the best we can from and for ourselves in this life.

Over many years I have researched, used and applied many of them. Some have had an effect on me, most  have been a complete waste of my time and effort. That may be my fault. One thing I do know is that most of them were much too complicated to understand, apply and benefit from. I'm not unintelligent ( I have an Honurs Degree) but the language, concepts and complicated explantions of what to do in most of what I read or listened to left me with 'mind overload', uncertain about what to do and how to do it.

After much research  I realised that my approach to providing self- help knowledge to the world was just as credible as any other 'product' and that many people would find my 'take' on things to be relevent, meaningful and useful to them.

I have used what I have learned during my life to take me from Postman to  College Lecturer and  now happily retired and living in wonderful Spain.



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Back to my dilemma. Soon after having the doubts metioned in the first paragraph above I realised that for any and every product on this planet there are many variations.

Everything, from chocolate bars to shampoos, from cars to TV's, from breakfast cereals to spectacles. The reason for this is, of course, that every person  is different and our individual needs can only be met by a very wide range of products. Each product creator seeks to meet the needs of individuals in the world, not the whole world. You can't please all the people all of the time.

Having realised that this applies to every product available to each of us I  became convinced that my particular 'take' on the self -help  industry would make a credible, useable and easily-applied  additional product choice .

I don't actually like, or  use, other than when I have to,  the terms, self- help, self- development or  self-improvement. I prefer the term SELF -EMPOWERMENT. Why? Because, we all do have powers within us that are easily undertood, easily improved and easily applied. Knowing, understanding and using these abillities gives every person on this planet a power which is only limited by their unwillingness to, try, learn, understand and apply a very simple two-step process.

The term SELF EMPOWERMENT is what I use specifically in relation to the knowledge I have researched and written about in my books and my Blog.

Choice is something we all need to be offered if we are to find the right 'product' to meet our individual needs. I offer another choice! I offer a different, credible and  two-step method of understanding and releasing the POWER we all posses from birth. One that few of us are ever made aware of, or how to use efficiently!

I have proved to myself, and you can do so to, that this  process is the foundation for the success of all sucessful people from the past. It is also the one process that will provide the world with successful people in the future.

Not everyone who reads this post, or my other posts, will be the kind of person who can benefit from what I am offering. That fine I just want to, in fact have to,  know that those who accept my 'take' on the self-help area will do so because they 'get what I am offering'. That way I can be of proper service to those who decide to join me as  students and partners in my mission.

When I wrote the draft for this post I got carried away and in the end wrote far too much, according to the blogging experts. So I tried to get all that I wanted to pass on in one post but I can't.

This means that there is another post that follows on from this one to complete the message I want to make available to you all.

Yes I have placed a link in all my posts about a book I have written. It's entitled "MIND MATTERS!". I wrote it to help everyone who reads it to discover how to, understand, control and use your mind to your best advantage. You will have to invest $5.00 to begin empowering yourself. If you only ever DO one thing to help yourself get the most you can out of life DO THIS! Click on the 'BUY NOW' button on the right to get the book. It will change your THINKING and your LIFE. Why not do it now?

Thank you for reading this post!

You could also go to my other website, click on this link, www.think-do-have.com either here or in my posts. This site will allow you to find out more about me, my research and my insight into the world that very few people ever learn about, understand, and then actually know how to use in order to make their life better. The process is called SELF-EMPOWERMENT.

My objective is “Changing people one thought at a time. Changing the world one person at a time”. Me

If you think that any of your friends would be interested in the information in my blogs please let them know. I will appreciate your help and they will probably thank you for letting them know about me, my book and my intentions!

I hope that you now think that reading this post has been of benefit to you!

As always, beneficially yours,

Phil Soffé  

P.S. A reminder that my book 'MIND MATTERS' will start you on the self-empowering journey of understanding how, what we think and do determines the life we all experience.


About philinspain

A self - help addict for the last forty years. I have spent the last five years seeking for, and finding, the essential, central and most effective tools that empower personal change. My mission is to, inform serve, help and teach others what I know. Why? Because, you can't use what you don't know. So let me tell you what you need to know through this blog. Albert Einstein knows the truth, but............. it ain't Rocket Science.
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    Thanks for commenting. See comment below.
    Phil Soffé
    https://www.thoughtistry.com and http://www.think-do-have.com

  2. admin says:

    I would love my site to be that popular. I have looked at your link but am not sure how what is on offer can help me. Still learning about the online marketing/traffic/Blogging stuff.
    Thanks for commenting.
    Phil Soffé
    http://www.thoughtistry.com and http://www.think-do-have.com

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  4. admin says:

    Hi Winfred,
    My sincere thanks for your feedback. Sorry about the slight delay in responding I am still getting to know about Blogging. My objective is to: “Change people one thought at a time. Change the world one person at a time”. Your help in doing so will support that. I know that no none else knows what I know and writes what I write. Your help in ‘spreading the message’ will be much appreciated.

    Phil Soffé
    http://www.thoughtistry.com and http://www.think-do-have.com

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