"A man is the product of his thoughts. What he thinks he becomes". Mahatma Gandhi. (I'm certain that he intended this statement to apply to women as well).

"Before you work on anything else work on yourself." Jim Rohn.


Hello and welcome,

Read all of this post, the few minutes you spend will make you a stronger, more capable, better informed person and because it will work wonders for your life!

This is a follow on from my earlier posts, “ESSENTIAL THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS THAT MAINTAIN MOTIVATION” and the use of, “I WILL…………………POWER.

Today the message is about taking charge of your life and future plans, thoughts and dreams. I am not totally convinced about using the word ‘dreams’ to indicate ‘better things’ but we all understand what is meant by the word, so I have used it

You must know the word INTENTION? But are you aware of the power of INTENTION?

Did you know?  LeonardoDa Vinci invented scissors.

The greatest power we can all tap into is intention. Intention is the decision, commitment and downright no cop-out, procrastination free thought that you will do something.

When you have the INTENTION to, go for a meal, wash the car, go for a run, change your clothes or change your life that's when things will begin to happen!

It all starts with the thought “I WILL having in mind I INTEND TO………………. at the beginning of anything you INTEND, and COMMIT to, follow through on, take action on and actually DO! I call this, I WILL ....power. When this process is properly, understood, accepted and applied there is nothing in this world that will stop you getting to from where you are in life to somewhere better.

I have used this process every day for the past three years and I have always achieved what I wanted to achieve, by using it.

Without these words as a promise to yourself at the start of anything you want to achieve you are unlikely to even start, never mind finish, the actions that can bring your plans and dreams into reality. By placing the thought, “I WILL…… in front of and continuing to use them as your project, plan or goal proceeds you are ninety per cent more likely to get to where you want to be.

INTENTION, is the decision that, powers your vision, makes your way forward clearer and will support you in finally realizing all of your dreams and open up new strategies for you.

However this doesn't just happen by chance, good luck or some kind of magic.

You have to really want things to change... mentally, mindfully and deep inside yourself.

Question: Why am I writing this message to you today???

Because: If asked, most people would say that they want more help, more money, more health, (you know what I mean) more from life in general and to somehow be freed from having to get up today to an existence that they find boring and mind numbing.

They want more from life and there is nothing wrong with that. It simply is the case that if you are happy with what you’ve got then that’s where you will stay. Many people live happily without evolving but most of us die regretting the things we didn’t DO or HAVE!

But here’s the truth, if you want more you are going to have to THINK more and DO more in order to HAVE more in your life in the future.


Let’s be totally honest. What we all want is:

More health. (I know this doesn’t read right but you know what I mean)

More financial freedom

More stability in our relationships.

Is that what you want ?

I did, which is why I changed my THINKING and my DOING in order to HAVE much more from life.

To achieve this I had to change my autopilot/habitual/wrong-thinking system, my thinking -mindset and my intentions.

So I made it my INTENTION to change. And, today, as my life, my vision and my  enthusiasm continue to grow I know that I am still evolving and that I WILL continue to evolve until the day I die, through the use of SELF –EMPOWERMENT. Because that is my INTENTION my “I WILL……………………..

Evolution has brought all living creatures, that includes you and me, to where they are, today. Anything that didn’t learn to evolve and change in the world is now just history. The same applies to every one of us as individuals. It’s not as bad as ‘evolve or die’, but it is, evolve ordie the same person you were when you were say 20 years old’.

I'm passionate about helping others. I love that I'm able to help people make the mental connection and carry out the actions needed to HAVE the changes that they want in their personal, career and business lives.

So make use of INTENTION to create a life that you control. It's time to make some changes in your THINKING and your DOING.


What you THINK and what you DO,

      Determine what becomes of YOU”. Me

Maybe you're ready to start a new exercise program.

Maybe you’re ready to improve your financial situation.

Maybe you're ready to leave your job and become self-employed.

Maybe you're ready to make some changes in your personal life.

Maybe is not however good enough. Change, ’Maybe’ in the statements above to, "I INTEND TO" or "I WILL". And then DO something about your intentions.

Yes I have placed a link in all my posts about a book I have written. It's entitled "MIND MATTERS!". I wrote it to help everyone who reads it to discover how to, understand, control and use your mind to your best advantage. You will have to invest $5.00 to begin empowering yourself. If you only ever DO one thing to help yourself get the most you can out of life DO THIS! Click on the 'BUY NOW' button on the right to get the book. It will change your THINKING and your LIFE. Why not do it now?

Thank you for reading this post!

You could also go to my other website, click on this link, either here or in my posts. This site will allow you to find out more about me, my research and my insight into the world that very few people ever learn about, understand, and then actually know how to use in order to make their life better. The process is called SELF-EMPOWERMENT.

I can give you ‘BETTER THINKING’ information every day on how to improve your health, your finances or your relationships. However if you don't  DO  something with the information then none of it matters.

I love my life and my INTENTION is that this will continue until ‘the end’. I want to spread that message, of cultivating SELF-EMPOWERMENT to as many people as I possibly can.

Three things to remember are THESE:

"Dreams don't work unless you DO"! John C. Maxwell.

"Nothing works unless you  DO". (I can’t remember where I read this)

"DO nothing and get nothing in return". (Or this)


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If you think that any of your friends would be interested in the information in my blogs please let them know. I will appreciate your help and they could, in the future, thank you for letting them know about me, my book and my intentions!

Changing people one thought at a time. Changing the world one person at a time”. Me.

Always working to help others to think better and become more than they currently are.

Beneficially yours, always,

Phil Soffé

P.S. A reminder that my book 'MIND MATTERS' will start you on the self-empowering journey of understanding how, what we think and do determines the life we all experience.

About philinspain

A self - help addict for the last forty years. I have spent the last five years seeking for, and finding, the essential, central and most effective tools that empower personal change. My mission is to, inform serve, help and teach others what I know. Why? Because, you can't use what you don't know. So let me tell you what you need to know through this blog. Albert Einstein knows the truth, but............. it ain't Rocket Science.
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